On Monday I shared how sometimes we want to blame others for our suffering.
If they would just say they loved me.
If they would just accept me the way I am.
If they would just support me in the things I want to do.
If they would just clean up after themselves.
When my brain gives me these thoughts and tells me I would feel better if someone else would change, I remind myself, “I’m the best one to take care of me.”
If I want someone to love me…I’m the best one to love me.
If I want someone to accept me…I’m the best one to accept me.
If I want someone to support me in the things I’m doing…I’m the best one to do that.
I’m also the best one to clean up after myself.
Think about what you wish someone else would say or do. Then you do or say it. Then thank yourself for being that one.
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